Here are a few of the books I have recommended and enjoyed over the years. You may find them helpful as well.
Codependent No More by Melody Beattie
How to stop controlling others and start taking care of yourself
I recommend this book because it is a very well written book about codependency. I believe that codependency is on e of the most destructive addictions. I believe that codependency is the foundation addictions of all addictions.
Boundaries by De. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
When to Say Yes, When to Say No, Take Control of Your Life
This is an excellent book to learn about boundaries and how they apply to our living. Healthy boundaries are an essential part of growing with healthy Spirituality.
Healing Your Aloneness by Margaret Paul and Erika J. Chopich
Finding Love and Wholeness Through Your Inner Child
This is an excellent book that becomes a learning tool that assists in the healing of the inner child.
Inner Bonding by Margaret Paul
Becoming a Loving Adult to Your Inner Child
This book provides the guidance of Margaret Paul's understanding of healing the past by being the parent to your inner child that you needed while you were a child.
You Can Help With Your Healing by Dr. Vernon J. Bittner
This is a very powerful book that will touch your heart and challenge you to take responsibility for your growth and healing. Dr. Bittner is my mentor who helped me to understand and put together the pieces of how to and what it means to be a Christian Counselor.
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